who likes to eat maid's hair - pls raise ur hands! I guess all hands down.. I gave her 3 choices - a. Go home b. Cut hair c. Go back agency and the stupid maid ran off.
Well she landed at Indonesia embassy. We made a police report before she was found.
Why didn't the embassy questioned her n called us? No one knows why! Our govt is supposed to be fair n just but when it comes to us employers of domestic helpers, I realised that everyone complains over the Internet over maids that steals, demands, ill treats, threatens, run away.. But our govt just don't help us thru any avenue.. It's only we hv to pay $5000 if we can't locate her in 1 month.. They run, or even shiok shiok then pregnant - we hv to pay?! This is so unfair. Giving them day off deserves nothing but an increased risk of them making us pay for $5000 when everyone talks about day off fairness to the domestic helpers. So being nice gets higher risks?
I hv decided. Lucas is 2 yrs old now. Short of a pair of hands is tiring but nothing more tiring than one who cannot cook after 2 yrs of work, and drops hair into ur meals. Can u imagine the frustrations when u feed ur child n see a strand of hair inside the porridge or rice or macaroni? Ask her to cut hair is like cutting her hands off which she refused like crazy.
Enough is enough. I hv had enough of these people's rubbish. Ever since a scheming sister stole my hardwork in my business n took away a precious sister, I trust no one except Bella. What do u expect? 日防夜防家贼难防。what can I do? Move on.. Of cos. A sister who decides that 30 yrs of ties are not even comparable to a 5 yrs thief then what can I do? move on, yixuan! I can do my best in selling gold n clothes. I can do all I can to get away from these lousiest matter over minds or what shit mind over matters people.. But I can never imagine losing a 30-yrs sibling. But she hv made her choice so I will not go close.
Ou you tang, u may hv won a sister which u loses 3 over the past 30 yrs but u can never get what mummy gives us when she is around - a mother's love. U may be able to give ur child's love but u will never experience the love that one ever gets from a true mom who fights for her children. And that is probably the reason why u r so not-loved so much when u were born. Cos evryone knew u r going to be a thief n a betrayer to the family. To the one who feeds u when u need clothes n money at ur jc school time. To the one who gave u support when u made ur choice to give up a man full worth of love for a man whose mom have 100k in cash. U can never understand what true family ties are all about. Becos u r u. U win over ur own mind, taking hands of matters that breaks up families. Like u did to ur parents and now to ur siblings. This is u. Well done. Let ur next generation show u what is immediate karma reaction when u get old.
Let the rest of us continue to love our blood-bonded family as we move in to 2011. In Chinese, the new year is yet to be here and yes, we will have a better year wihout the disturbance over people who do not matter, and over people who think others should take the worst for kindness.
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